Back to Life after the Plunge

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The learnings that came out of the 3 days of introspection, through the days that followed talking to certain people.

1. I get more out of life when I participate 100%
2. I can get more out of life when I step out of my comfort zones in relationships and reach out
3. I can get more out of life if I get in touch with my senses and feelings (and others by really listening)
4. When I rebel against being controlled - I'm still being controlled since I'm still not acting autonomously.
5. I don't need to be right all the time. I can compromise much more and be more accepting (even by simply changing my body language)
6. I shouldn't preach to others or try to fix or change them. I should set an example and give advice when asked for it.
7. I sometimes become nervous when my image is put under the microscope. I will be much more confident if I allow myself to make mistakes.
8. Everyone is nice if you get to know them so i shouldn't bitch or hold prejudices against people.
9. I'm going to become a trainer or a coach. Need to figure out the exact mechanics that will get me there.

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